V-nai de (~ないで): Beginner’s Guide to Saying “Without ~ing” in Japanese

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V-nai de (~ないで): Beginner’s Guide to Saying “Without ~ing” in Japanese
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Introduction

Want to say “I went out without an umbrella” or “He sleeps without turning off the lights”? The core beginner pattern is V-ないで. It attaches to the negative (nai) form of a verb and means “without doing X,” before another action.

This article centers on ~ないで. We’ll add a brief tip on the related formal form ~ずに/せずに near the end.

1. Structure & Meaning

The Japanese grammar pattern V-ない + で is used to express “without doing something” or “not doing something.” It indicates that an action has not been performed or was avoided while doing something else.

PatternMeaningExample (JP)Translation
V-ないで, V₂do V₂ without doing Vあさごはんをべないで学校がっこうきます。I go to school without eating breakfast.

2. How to Form It

  1. Make the verb negative (nai) form.
  2. add .
  3. Add the main action right after.
VerbNegative (nai)V-ないで
べる (to eat)食べない食べないで (without eating)
く (to go)行かない行かないで (without going)
する (to do)しないしないで (without doing)
る (to come)こないこないで (without coming)
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Review Unit 8-1 of Level 1 for how to make V-ない forms!

3. Example Sentences

砂糖さとうれないでコーヒーをみます。
I drink coffee without adding sugar.


電気でんきさないでました。
I slept without turning off the light.


  • 辞書じしょ使つかわないで日本語にほんごほんみます。
    I read Japanese books without using a dictionary.
  • ひげをそらないで会社かいしゃきました。
    I went to work without shaving.
  • サイズをないでTシャツをってしまいました。
    I ended up buying a T-shirt without checking the size.
  • カギをかけないでかけました。
    I left without locking the door.

4. Usage Notes & Variations

  • Time: V-ないで works in present or past; the “without” action is understood to happen before or during the main action.
    • 砂糖さとうれないで紅茶こうちゃみます。
      I always drink black tea without sugar.
    • 砂糖を入れないで紅茶を飲みました。
      I drank black tea without sugar.
  • Don’t confuse with a request:

5. Practice Time!

Convert each cue into a “without ~ing” sentence (first one done).

CueModel answerEnglish
朝ごはん/食べる → 学校に行く朝ごはんを食べないで学校に行きます。I go to school without eating breakfast.
傘/持つ → 出かける(past)傘を持たないで出かけました。I went out without taking an umbrella.
宿題/する → ねる宿題をしないで寝ます。I go to bed without doing my homework.
電気/消す → 家を出る (past)電気を消さないで家を出ました。I left home without turning off the lights.
サイズ/確認する → ネットで買う (past)サイズを確認しないでネットで買いました。I bought it online without checking the size.

6. Common Mistakes

❌ WrongWhy it’s wrong✅ Fix
宿題しゅくだいするないでました。する → しない宿題をしないで寝ました。
電気でんきしませんました。Use Present negative (V-nai) form電気を消さないで寝ました。

7. Related Grammar: V-ずに / せずに (formal “without”)

Your main tool is ~ないで. In more formal or written contexts, you may see ~ずに (and せずに for する).

Verb~ないで~ずに
べる (taberu, to eat)食べないで食べずに
使つかう (tsukau, to use)使わないで使わずに
する (suru, to do)しないでせずに

Example sentence:

  • 夕食ゆうしょくべないでました。 = 夕食を食べずに寝ました。
    I went to bed without eating dinner.
  • くすり使つかわないで病気びょうきをなおしました。= 薬を使わずに病気をなおしました。
    I cured my illness without using medicine.
  • 予約よやくしないでレストランにきました。= 予約せずにレストランに行きました。
    We went to a restaurant without making a reservation.

8. Another Meaning: ‘Instead of doing X, do Y’

‘V-naide’ can also mean “Don’t do X, do Y instead.” Besides “without doing,” V-naide has another crucial meaning: linking two actions where you choose to do the second one instead of the first. The structure is the same, but the meaning is about choice, not manner.

Example: エレベーターを使つかわないで階段かいだんきましょう。= Let’s take the stairs instead of the elevator.

9. FAQ

Q
Can I stack multiple “without” actions?
A

Yes, but keep it readable. Example: 朝ごはんを食べないで、歯も磨かないで出かけました。(Asagohan o tabenaide ha mo migakanaide dekake mashita / I left without eating breakfast or brushing my teeth.)

Q
When should I use V-ないで versus V-ずに (V-zuni)?
A

They both mean “without -ing,” but they differ in formality.

  • V-ないで (naide) is neutral and very common in everyday conversation. When in doubt, use this one.
  • V-ずに (zuni) is more formal and primarily used in written Japanese (essays, reports, news) or formal speeches.
  • Special case: For the verb する (suru), the zuni form is せずに (sezu ni). This is a very common set phrase.
Q
I saw the sentence そこで またないで、こっちへ 来てください。 (Don’t wait there, please come here.) Is this “without waiting”?
A

This is the other major use of V-naide. It doesn’t mean “without,” but rather “Don’t do X, and do Y instead.” It connects two clauses to present an alternative action.

Q
How do I say “without [a noun]”? For example, “coffee without sugar”?
A

For nouns, you don’t use -naide. Instead, you use the pattern Noun + なしで (nashi de).

  • 辞書じしょなしで新聞しんぶんみます。 (I read the newspaper without a dictionary.)
  • 砂糖さとうなしでコーヒーをみます。 (I drink coffee without sugar.)
Q
How does the tense work? Does the verb before -naide change?
A

The verb before -naide is always in the short negative form (-nai) and never changes, regardless of the tense of the main sentence. The final verb determines the tense of the whole sentence.

  • Present: あさごはんをべないで、学校がっこうきます。 (I go to school without eating breakfast.)
  • Past: 朝ごはんを食べないで、学校に行きました。 (I went to school without eating breakfast.)
Q
I went to bed without doing anything. Can I say 何もしないで寝ました?
A

Yes, that is a perfect and very natural sentence! 何もしないで (nani mo shinaide) is a common phrase meaning “without doing anything.” You can use it in many situations.

Example: 週末しゅうまつなにもしないで、いえでリラックスしました。 (I relaxed at home this weekend without doing anything special.)

Conclusion

Now you can use V-ないで (and the formal V-ずに/せずに) to express “without ~ing” naturally:

  • ✅ Build it from the nai form +
  • ✅ Use it for manner/sequence, not for reasons (→ なくて)
  • ✅ Don’t confuse it with V-ないでください (“please don’t”)

Try rewriting three things you did today without doing something else—your sentences will instantly sound more natural and precise.

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