~(よ)うとする・~(よ)うとしない Meaning & Usage: “About To” and “Won’t Even Try”

level3 (N3)

Introduction

Have you ever wanted to say “Just as I was about to go to bed…” or “He won’t even try to quit” in Japanese?

For example:

  • How do you say “I was about to pay when I realized my wallet was gone”?
  • How do you say “No matter how hard I try to forget her, I can’t”?
  • How do you complain that someone makes no attempt to do what they should?

All three come from the same JLPT N3 pattern: ~(よ)うとする, and its negative ~(よ)うとしない.


1. Meaning: What does ~(よ)うとする mean?

The volitional form (行いこう、食たべよう) expresses the will to do something.

Adding とする means the subject directs that will at an action—but the action itself has not been completed.

From this one idea come two main meanings and its negative form.

① Be just about to do

This use describes the moment right before an action. Typically, something interrupts, so the action never happens.

Common English translations:

  • be about to ~
  • just as I was going to ~
  • was on the point of ~ing

Example:

寝ねようとしたときに、友達ともだちからメールが来きました。
Just as I was about to go to sleep, I got a message from a friend.

② Attempt to do / try to do

This use describes an effort the subject is making to achieve something. Again, success is not guaranteed—in fact the pattern often appears exactly when the effort fails.

Common English translations:

  • try to ~
  • attempt to ~
  • make an effort to ~

Example:

健康けんこうのために、たばこをやめようとしています。
For my health, I’m trying to quit smoking.

③ ~(よ)うとしない → won’t even try

In the negative, the pattern says that someone shows no intention of doing something they are expected or supposed to do. It carries a clear note of frustration or criticism.

Common English translations:

  • won’t even try to ~
  • makes no attempt to ~
  • doesn’t even think about ~ing

Important: this form is normally used about other people, not about yourself. (See section 5 for the one exception.)


2. Formation

Verb (volitional form) + とする / としない

First, make the volitional form:

Group 1 (う-verbs): change the final -u to -ou

Replace the final u sound with the ou sound (e.g., -ku → -kou, -su → -sou, -bu → -bou, -mu → -mou, -ru → -rou).

  • 行いく (to go) → 行こう → 行こうとする
  • 払はらう (to pay) → 払おう → 払おうとする
  • 読よむ (to read) → 読もう → 読もうとする

Group 2 (る-verbs): replace る with よう

Remove the final ru and add you.

  • 食たべる (to eat) → 食べよう → 食べようとする
  • 寝ねる (to sleep) → 寝よう → 寝ようとする

Irregular verbs

  • する (to do) → しよう → しようとする
  • 来くる (to come) → 来こよう → 来こようとする

Patterns that go with each meaning

The words around the pattern are a strong clue to which meaning you are looking at.

  • Meaning ① often appears as ~(よ)うとしたとき or ~(よ)うとしたら, followed by an unexpected event.
  • Meaning ② often appears as ~(よ)うとしている (an ongoing effort) or ~(よ)うとしても (“even though I try…”).
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Practical tip: since the volitional form expresses will, this pattern only works with verbs you can choose to do. Verbs like できる have no volitional use here.


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3. Useful Examples

① Just about to do something

Situation: John looks exhausted this morning, and Yumi asks about it.

Yumi
Yumi

眠ねむそうだね。
You look sleepy.

John
John

昨日きのう寝ねようとしたら、友達ともだちから電話でんわがかかってきて……。2時間じかんも話はなしちゃったんだ。
Just as I was about to go to bed last night, a friend called… and we ended up talking for two hours.


図書館としょかんで勉強べんきょうしようとしたとき、ノートを忘わすれたことに気きがついた。
Just as I was about to study at the library, I realized I’d forgotten my notebook.


学校がっこうへ行いこうとしたら、地震じしんが起おきました。
Just as I was about to leave for school, an earthquake struck.


アイスクリームを食たべようとしたら、落おとしちゃった。
Right as I was about to eat my ice cream, I dropped it.


② Trying to do something

Situation: Emi knows Ken broke up with his girlfriend three months ago.

Emi
Emi

3カ月前げつまえに別わかれた彼女かのじょのこと、まだ考かんがえているの?
Are you still thinking about the girlfriend you broke up with three months ago?

Ken
Ken

うん。忘わすれようとしても、忘わすれられないんだ。
Yeah. Even though I try to forget about her, I can’t.


友達ともだちの誕生日たんじょうびを思おもい出だそうとしても、思おもい出だせません。
No matter how hard I try to remember my friend’s birthday, I can’t.


高たかいところに置おいてあった物ものを取とろうとして、椅子いすから落おちてしまった。
Trying to get something off a high shelf, I fell off the chair.


③ Won’t even try: ~(よ)うとしない

Situation: Saori is complaining about her son to a colleague.

Saori
Saori

うちの子こども、全然ぜんぜん勉強べんきょうしようとしないんですよ。
My kid never even thinks about studying at all.

Koki
Koki

家いえで宿題しゅくだいだけでも見みてあげたらどうですか。
Why don’t you at least help him with his homework at home?


道みちに迷まよって困こまっている人ひとがいたのに、だれも助たすけようとしなかった。
Someone was lost and in trouble, but nobody made any attempt to help.


ペットの猫ねこが大好だいすきな魚さかなを食たべようとしない。病気びょうきなのだろうか。
My cat won’t even touch the fish she loves. I wonder if she’s sick.


父ちちは病気びょうきなのに、たばこをやめようとしません。
My father is ill, yet he won’t even try to quit smoking.


4. Related grammar (comparison)

~ところだ

Vる + ところだ also means “about to do,” but it simply states where you are in a sequence.

~(よ)うとする adds the sense that you were physically starting the action, and usually something got in the way.

  • 今いまから出でかけるところです。= I’m about to head out now. (a neutral report)
  • 出でかけようとしたところに、客きゃくが来きた。= Just as I was heading out, a visitor arrived.

~つもりだ

つもりだ states an intention or plan that exists in your mind.

~(よ)うとする describes an effort that is already underway.

  • 来年らいねん、引ひっ越こすつもりです。= I plan to move next year. (a decision)
  • 新あたらしい部屋へやを探さがそうとしています。= I’m trying to find a new apartment. (already working on it)

~(よ)うとしない vs ~ない

A plain negative just reports a fact.

Adding ようとしない adds the judgment that the person should be doing it but refuses to.

Compare:

  • 弟おとうとは野菜やさいを食たべない。= My little brother doesn’t eat vegetables.
  • 弟おとうとは野菜やさいを食たべようとしない。= My little brother won’t even try to eat vegetables. (frustration)

5. Common Mistake: ~(よ)うとする vs. ~ようにする

These two look almost identical, and both can be translated as “try to.” Remember this golden rule:

  • ~(よ)うとする: a single attempt at one moment. Focus on the try itself, which may fail.
  • ~ようにする: an ongoing policy you keep. “Make a point of ~ing.”

Example: I make sure to look up any word I don’t know.

  • ✅ Correct: わからない単語たんごを見みたら、すぐに調しらべるようにしています。(A habit I keep.)
  • ❌ Incorrect: わからない単語を見たら、すぐに調べようとしています。

Example: I tried to open the window, but it wouldn’t open.

  • ✅ Correct: 窓まどを開あけようとしたが、開あかなかった。(One attempt, which failed.)
  • ❌ Incorrect: 窓を開あけるようにしたが、開かなかった。

One more caution: don’t use ~(よ)うとしない about yourself now

Because the form implies criticism of someone who won’t do their duty, it sounds strange applied to your own present state.

  • ❌ 私わたしは宿題しゅくだいをしようとしない。
  • ✅ 私わたしは宿題しゅくだいをしたくない。/ なかなか宿題しゅくだいが始はじめられない。

It is natural, however, when you look back on your past self objectively: 私わたしは高校生こうこうせいの時とき、新聞しんぶんを読よもうとしなかった。しかし、大学だいがくに入はいり、政治せいじに興味きょうみを持もつようになってから、毎日まいにち読よんでいる。


6. Practice

Translate the following into Japanese using ~(よ)うとする or ~(よ)うとしない.

ClueExample Answer
Just as I was about to pay at the convenience store, I realized my wallet was gone.コンビニでお金かねを払はらおうとした時とき、財布さいふがないことに気きがついた。
I heard Maria is trying to get a job at a Japanese company.マリアさんは日本にほんの会社かいしゃに就職しゅうしょくしようとしているらしいよ。
No matter how much I tell him to study, Taro won’t even try.勉強べんきょうしなさいと言いっても、太郎たろうは勉強べんきょうしようとしない。
My son won’t listen to what his parents say, so I’m at a loss.うちの息子むすこは親おやの言いうことを聞きこうとしないので、困こまっています。

7. FAQ

Q
How do I tell the two meanings apart?
A

Look at the form and the time frame.

Past tense plus とき/たら, followed by a sudden event, is almost always “about to”: 電車でんしゃに乗のろうとしたとき、ドアが閉しまった。

The ~ている form, or ~ても followed by “but I can’t,” signals “try to”: 早はやく寝ねようとしても、眠ねむれない。

Q
Can I use this pattern with any verb?
A

No. The volitional form expresses will, so the verb has to be an action someone can choose to take.

Verbs of ability or existence (できる、ある、見みえる) don’t work: ❌ 日本語にほんごができようとする。

For abilities, use ~ようになる instead: 日本語にほんごが話はなせるようになりたい。

Q
Is ~(よ)うとしない rude?
A

It is not rude in itself, but it does carry criticism, so be careful who you use it about.

It is very natural for family members, children, or pets, and in complaints about a general situation. Said directly to a customer or a superior, it would sound accusatory.

Note also that it describes someone who makes no attempt, not someone who simply cannot manage. For the latter, use the potential form: 弟おとうとは泳およげない。

Conclusion

In this article, you learned that ~(よ)うとする has two main meanings—“be just about to do” and “attempt to do”—and that the negative ~(よ)うとしない means “won’t even try.”

With this grammar, you can now:

  • describe the moment something interrupted you,
  • talk about efforts that didn’t quite work out,
  • and tell ~(よ)うとする apart from ~ようにする, ~ところだ, and ~つもりだ.
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