How to Use the Japanese Particle To(と) | “And”, “With”, and Quoting Speech

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Particle “と”
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Introduction

What do the following have in common?

  • “I studied Japanese and history.”
  • “I went to the park with my dad.”
  • “She said ‘I’m sorry.’”

They all use the Japanese particle と(to)!

This tiny word has several powerful uses in Japanese. In this article, you’ll learn:

✔ The three main meanings of と
✔ How to use と to say “and,” “with,” and quote speech
✔ Natural sentence examples
✔ Beginner-friendly explanations and tips
✔ A helpful FAQ section to clear up confusion

Let’s dive into the world of と — one of the most flexible and useful particles in Japanese!


1. What Is the Japanese Particle “と”?

The particle is used to:

FunctionMeaningExample
ListingA and B日本語(にほんご)歴史(れきし)を勉強(べんきょう)しました。/ I studied Japanese and history.
Companionship“with” someoneお父さん(おとうさん)公園(こうえん)に行(い)きました。/ I went to the park with my father.
Quotingsay or think “___”ナンシーさんは「ごめんなさい」言いました。/ Nancy said, “I’m sorry.

Let’s explore each one in more detail!


2. と for Listing: A and B

Use to connect two or more nouns in a list.

Pattern:

A と B → “A and B”

JapaneseEnglish
ペンノートを買(か)いました。I bought a pen and a notebook.
コーヒー紅茶(こうちゃ)があります。There is coffee and tea.
英語(えいご)日本語(にほんご)を勉強(べんきょう)しました。I studied English and Japanese.

Tip: と is used only between nouns (not verbs or adjectives).


3. と for Company: “With” Someone

Use after someone you do something with.

Pattern:

Person と Verb → “do something with ___”

JapaneseEnglish
お母さん(おかあさん)アメリカに行きます。I will go to the U.S. with my mom.
ともだち昼ご飯(ひるごはん)を食べました。I had lunch with a friend.
姉(あね)本屋(ほんや)に行きました。I went to the bookstore with my sister.

💡 Note: Don’t confuse this with も (“also”)!


4. と for Quoting: “He / She said…”

Use after a quote to mark what someone says or thinks.

Pattern:

“…” と 言いました
→ “said…”

JapaneseEnglish
シェリーさんは「ごめんなさい」言いました。Shelly said, “I’m sorry.”
先生は「ありがとう」言いました。The teacher said “thank you.”
けんさんは「わたしは学生(がくせい)じゃないです」言いました。Ken said, “I am not a student.”

Quotes are often in 「かぎかっこ」 (quotation marks) in writing.


5. Real-Life Examples

EnglishJapanese
I went to the hospital and the library.病院(びょういん)図書館(としょかん)に行きました。
I bought a T-shirt and a hat.Tシャツ帽子(ぼうし)を買いました。
I ate lunch with an international student.留学生(りゅうがくせい) ひるごはんを食べました。
I went to the park with my mother.母(はは)公園(こうえん)に行きました。
She said “good morning.”彼女(かのじょ)は「おはよう」言いました。

6. Practice Time: Fill in the Blank with と

Let’s explore the different ways you can use the particle と in Japanese. Fill in the blank with と and think about why it fits in each sentence. Explanations are provided after each question.

Question 1: 友達__映画を見に行きました。/ I went to see a movie with friends.

Explanation: Here, と indicates that you went to see a movie with your friend. It shows companionship or doing an action together.

Question 2: コーヒー__ケーキを注文しました。/ I ordered coffee and cake.

Explanation: In this case, と connects two nouns, indicating “and.” You ordered both coffee and cake.

Question 3: ケンさんは「明日カフェに行きます」__言いました。/ Ken said, “I will go to the cafe tomorrow.”

Explanation: Here, と is used to quote direct speech. It comes after the quoted phrase and before a verb of saying (言いました – iimashita, said).

✅ Good job! と is the right answer for all three.


7. FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

Q
What’s the difference between と and も?
A

と = “and” (joins nouns), も = “also” (adds inclusion)
Example:
A と B = A and B
A も B も = Both A and B

Q
Can I use と to connect verbs?
A

No. と is only for nouns or quotes.
Use て-form to connect verbs (we’ll cover this later!).

Q
Are there other ways to use 「と」?
A

Yes, besides the basic uses we introduced in this article, there are various other ways to use 「と」. These are a bit more advanced, so here are a few tips for you:

Tip 1: Using 「と」 when a certain condition or trigger leads to the next event.
Example: 春(はる)になると、桜(さくら)が咲(さ)きます。(Haru ni naru to, sakura ga sakimasu. / When spring comes, the cherry blossoms bloom.)

Tip 2: Using 「と」 when an action leads to an unexpected event or the next state.
Example: ドアを開(あ)けると、猫(ねこ)がいました。(Doa o akeru to, neko ga imashita. / When I opened the door, there was a cat.)

Tip 3: Using 「と」 to express a certain state or role.
Example: 彼(かれ)は先生(せんせい)として、生徒(せいと)たちに教(おし)えています。(Kare wa sensei to shite, seito-tachi ni oshiete imasu. / He is teaching the students as a teacher.)


8. Conclusion: と Is a Multi-Tasking Particle!

Now you know how to use と to say:

✔ “A and B”
✔ “with someone”
✔ “he said ___”

It’s one of the most flexible and frequent particles in Japanese — and now it’s yours to use!

🎯 Try writing 3 example sentences using と in all three ways.

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