Background
Origins and Meaning
Mother’s Day in Japan is called 母の日 (Haha no Hi), and it is celebrated on the second Sunday of May.
This day is for thanking mothers and showing appreciation for everything they do for their families. It is a time to express love, gratitude, and respect in a simple but heartfelt way.
Modern Mother’s Day in Japan was influenced by the American tradition. It became more widely known and celebrated after World War II, and today it is a familiar annual event across the country. Although it is not a national holiday, many families still treat it as a special day.
In Japan, family appreciation is often shown through small, thoughtful actions rather than grand events. That is why Mother’s Day is usually warm, gentle, and personal. A flower, a handwritten card, or a homemade meal can carry a lot of meaning.
What do people do on this day?
Mother’s Day Customs in Japan
On Mother’s Day, people in Japan often give their mothers red or pink carnations. Carnations are the most famous flowers associated with this day, and they are sold in flower shops, supermarkets, and department stores every year around early May.
Besides flowers, many people also give gifts such as sweets, cakes, tea, cosmetics, aprons, handkerchiefs, or small accessories. Children, especially younger ones, often make handmade cards or drawings. These gifts may be simple, but they are valued because they come from the heart.
Another common custom is helping at home. Children may wash the dishes, clean the house, do laundry, or help prepare a meal. Some families cook their mother’s favorite food or eat together at home as a way to celebrate.
For many Japanese families, Mother’s Day is less about expensive presents and more about saying “thank you”. Even a short message such as いつもありがとう (Itsumo arigatou / Thank you always) can make the day feel special.
If family members live far away, they may send flowers or gifts by delivery, or call their mother to express their appreciation. In this way, Mother’s Day in Japan is both traditional and flexible: what matters most is the feeling behind the gesture.
Popular Mother’s Day Gifts in Japan
Here are some common Mother’s Day gifts in Japan.
Carnations and flower bouquets: These are the most classic gifts. A small bouquet is easy to give and immediately creates a special feeling.
Sweets and cakes: Many families buy cakes, chocolates, or other treats to enjoy together. Food gifts are popular because they can be shared.
Handmade cards and pictures: Young children often draw pictures of their mothers or write short thank-you notes. These may become treasured keepsakes.
Helping with chores: Some children give their mother a “day off” by helping with cooking, cleaning, or laundry. This practical support can be just as meaningful as a present.
Useful Japanese Words for Mother’s Day
Here are a few useful words and expressions related to Mother’s Day in Japan:
- 母の日 (Haha no Hi) = Mother’s Day
- お母さん (Okaasan) = mom / mother
- カーネーション (Kaanēshon) = carnation
- ありがとう (Arigatou) = thank you
- いつもありがとう (Itsumo arigatou) = thank you always
- プレゼント (Purezento) = gift / present
A simple Mother’s Day message in Japanese is:
お母さん、いつもありがとう。
Okaasan, itsumo arigatou.
“Mom, thank you for everything.”
